Using rules for

Recognize the behavior:

Throwing a loud tantrum.

Identify what you want to see:

Using strategies to calm down when upset.

Use the Skill:

Set up a rule like, “The rule in our house is to use inside voices, even when we are upset. If you follow the rule all day today, we can read an extra story at bedtime. If you break the rule, you will lose 10 minutes of screen time.”