Using rules for

Recognize what you want to see:

Sticking with it, staying calm, coming up with new ideas, trying again.

Use the skill:

Try a rule like, “It is OK to be angry, but the rule is to treat your toys with respect all the time. If you play gently and nicely with your toys, you can keep playing with them. If you throw or break your toys when you get upset, then I will put them away for the next hour.”