Recognize what you want to see:
Feeling safe, calmly talking about feelings, acting brave.
Use the skill:
This skill is generally not helpful for this goal. Try to avoid commands when your child is afraid.
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Purpose:
When a child feels anxious, commands usually just make them feel worse. When you have to give commands, make sure they are effective. This shows that you are in control and can keep your child safe. Asking or pleading with your child can actually make anxiety worse because it forces children to be in control rather than their parents.
