Redirect

Using redirect for a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: You might try playing “I spy” or pretending you can’t find something. Praise your child for playing along. Purpose:Redirect helps your child focus on something they like. This improves their […]

Adjust the Environment

Using adjust the environment for a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: If your child’s attitude gets worse, bring them water and a snack. If your child slept poorly, you might adjust your plans or reduce demands on your child. […]

Transitions

Using transitions for a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: Try transitions before activities your child doesn’t like. For example, “After this game, it will be time for chores. After chores, we can play again.” Purpose:It is easier for children […]

Enjoy

Using enjoy for having a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: Find ways to turn difficult or boring activities into something fun. Purpose:Remind your child that things can be more fun when you do them together. Smile and laugh together […]

Describe

Using descriptions for having a better attitude Recognize what you want to SEE: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: Describe your child’s positive behaviors. For example, “Wow! You made your breakfast already!” Purpose:Describing your child’s positive behaviors helps them feel good about themself. It shows you notice what […]

Imitate

Using imitation for having a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: Imagine your child is not happy about a situation, but is trying to have a good attitude. Imitate their good attitude. Follow along with any good ideas they have […]

Reflect

Using reflections for a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: Reflect whenever your child is respectful or has a good attitude. For example, your child has been in a negative mood then asks kindly, “Could you play a game with […]

Praise

Using praise for a better attitude Recognize what you want to see: Being respectful and kind, doing something with a good attitude Use the skill: Praise whenever your child speaks respectfully, even if you do not agree with what they say. For example, “Thank you for respectfully telling me how you feel.” Purpose: Notice whenever […]