Using enjoy for
Recognize the behavior:
Hits or bites a sibling who took their toy.
Identify what you want to see:
Staying calm and asking for help when the sibling takes the toy.
Use the Skill:
If your child stays calm when the sibling takes a toy, show a lot of enjoyment as you praise them for staying calm.
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Purpose:
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It can be very difficult for children to stay calm and ask for help when they are upset. This is especially true when they are used to hitting or biting to show their feelings. Show you are proud of them with enjoyment and praise. This helps them feel good and want to keep making you proud.
Remember that enjoyment is most helpful when you also use the other PC-CARE skills.